Women tend to get carried away and get hung up on one thing, let it be relationships, friendship, color in clothes, shade of lipstick and the smell of shower gel. Even at work, we try to create a comfortable atmosphere by surrounding ourselves with pleasant people and minimizing communication with those who, for whatever, most often absurd reason (a pungent smell of perfume, a strange tie) are not attractive to us. This is a very big problem: the smaller the circle of friends, the less chances of success. Sometimes even talking about nothing near the cooler can lead to a raise. Our advice: do not be that evil one from the fifth floor and become open to any communication.
Don't burn bridges
Former classmates and classmates are no longer those pimply and annoying guys from school and institute, today they are company owners, employees of large and small firms, politicians, journalists, or just people with the necessary acquaintances. Do not forget to keep in touch with them, so that if something happens, there is someone to turn to for help.
Don't be selfish
Karma is not a strange word or a horror story for adults, it is a very good rule of life: help and then help you. You know that no one wants to communicate and be friends with selfish people. It is only in films and TV shows that eccentric sociophobes are attractive and desirable, but in life we often avoid such personalities and, moreover, we will not contribute to their career growth.
Decide on a goal
And then look for ways to achieve it, including through communication. Of course, we do not advise you to approach each colleague and bore you with your stories of dreams and grandiose plans, so everyone will simply hate you, and then you will definitely get into a mess, but here is a little hint in a conversation that you are a wonderful manager and could easily cope out with that position is not forbidden.
Feel free to be proactive
Did you meet a person yesterday who can change your professional future? Have you exchanged contacts? Write to him today a welcome letter that it was a pleasure to meet you and that you will be glad to further cooperation. This way you will be remembered, and your contact will not get bogged down in hundreds of others.
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