The woman does not give orders, but asks for advice. - When we force people to do something, even useful and necessary both for them and for the cause, they unconsciously have resistance. And when we ask advice "What is the best way to do this or that business?", we allow them to see the possibilities themselves and choose the best ways to solve certain problems. Even if we then correct or even radically change it, it is still accepted in a completely different way and is performed much faster and more efficiently. Often times, those around you really come up with more ingenious solutions, so listen to what they say.
A woman does not set goals, but forms a vision. - As a rule, goals are dry and boring, there is no life in them, and their achievement requires plowing and hard work. But as soon as we bring images, colors, emotions into these goals, they become a vision that we want to realize, which already lives by itself and beckons to sooner find ourselves at the point where everything has already happened. You say to your employees or bosses: "Imagine …" and paint a picture of a wonderful future, and the more you add details, sounds, sensations, emotions to this picture, the more your vision will have energy that will fill you and those around you.
A woman does not compete, but integrates. - The most terrible question for many women is how to stop living in constant fear that you will be substituted, replaced, fired, or preferred to others in your place. But if we understand that everyone has their own strengths and talents, if we value our uniqueness and the uniqueness of others, then competition disappears and turns into cooperation. When a woman is able to unite different people for the common good, then everyone wins. Repeat to yourself when you are faced with competition: “I accept you, I accept that you are so (that) you are, I accept you with all your strengths, with what I can learn from you, what you are better at. You have your strengths, I have my strengths.. You are unique and I am unique. Together we do more than I alone.”
A woman does not force, but inspires. - Any work can be done formally, especially if it was forced to do, or you can put your soul, time and creativity into it, and get an outstanding result both for yourself and for the company. Every woman is given the intuitive knowledge of what a particular person wants, what he does best, what he is ready to move mountains for and what will really inspire him - recognition, money, power or an idea. And the art of a woman is to find her own key for everyone, so to speak, from what needs to be done so that a person grows wings and has a desire to show his best qualities.
The woman does not punish, but consoles. - We all tend to make mistakes and we all understand when we did something wrong. Often, we are afraid not even of the mistake itself, but of the punishment that may follow and sometimes be too cruel. And if we meet with compassion and consolation, then the mistake turns into a lesson, having learned which, we do not want to step on the same rake again. Usually women do this with their beloved children, comforting them when something went wrong, and wise women - with everyone around them.
The woman does not plow, but enjoys the process. - Bringing photographs and flowers to the workplace is not a whim, but a woman's ability to create a space of pleasure around herself. When a woman enjoys what she is doing and where she is, then everything starts to argue in her hands. Therefore, it is so important for a woman to do what she loves, creatively approaching the solution of all problems and what surrounds her. Aromatic coffee, soft stools and colorful folders increase our productivity.
A woman does not fight, but adds (expands). - We, as women, can not select a business, sales markets or the best employees, but show that it is with us that the grass is greener and denser, and with us it is easier to get what everyone dreams of. We describe our advantages, and like sirens we call to our paradise … People voluntarily follow us, dreaming of joining us. The great phrase of Margarita: "They themselves will come and offer everything" is still relevant. Draw alluring perspectives that are only possible with you, and you can take over the whole world without spilling a drop of blood. The main thing is that you are honest and confident that you have something to offer.
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