The question of how much should every man who dreams of a beautiful woman and, as a result, a family earn, worries each of us. We want, if not fur coats and expensive cars, then at least a calm coexistence, without a frantic monthly search for "who to borrow from before payday." In modern realities, when prices are growing by leaps and bounds, desires that were simple before become a luxury, and elements of a rich life remain somewhere at the level of unrealizable hopes.
Who doesn't want to live well? Our post-Soviet consciousness confidently reiterates to every self-respecting woman: the husband must support the family, and numerous modern magazines for those "who are beyond …", serials about successful and arranged people assure: a woman is created for a beautiful life, a man, therefore, must sprinkle her with diamonds, bring every evening from work instead of milk and bread - fur coats, branded bags and other attributes of luxury. Such confusion, generated by conflicting information, does not allow us to decide: how much should a man earn so that we, the fairer sex, can live peacefully?
One of my acquaintances, a premium blonde, demonstrating indecently long and straight legs, likes to say that, they say, a true man should earn just enough so that a woman can afford, at least, not to work at all, and as a maximum - to travel around all countries of the world, spend the night in five-star hotels and buy the best for yourself. Note that at the same time, a man who brings home a tidy sum must himself look like a cover model, which means that he must invest not only in his beloved, but also in himself. According to rough estimates, it turns out that a "normal man" is simply obliged to replenish the family budget every month, by at least half a million. Not a bad figure in my opinion. It is difficult to condemn a girl who dreams of luxury, another thing is that to find a representative of the stronger sex who would manage to earn so much money,at the same time, to pay attention to the family, twice a year to go to the resorts with the beloved half and from time to time to admire his wife - how gloriously she is spending her savings on beauty salons, alas, is almost impossible.
Most likely, if, of course, you are not a Cinderella from a fairy tale, you will get an average guy with an average income, that is, it is from forty to fifty thousand rubles, okay - somewhere, they probably pay 70, so you have a chance to grab "Fish is fatter". But, on the other hand, this is not so bad, because if a man "walks" you, then he has the right to dictate his terms. Pay for all the entertainment and not even have the right to raise your voice? This is from the category of fairy tales about princes and virtuous beauties, whose sincerity and purity so conquer a naive rich man that he throws millions at her feet without any hesitation. Unfortunately, this does not happen in real life. Firstly, the richer a man is, the more carefully he throws, well, because, you never know, tomorrow you decide to run away with your lover to the other side of the planet, and he has already thrown, gave away,reissued and was left in splendid isolation and without money, and secondly, believe me, he has options for much more profitable investments. Another friend of mine, an exalted woman, makes a decision about once a month to divorce a wealthy husband, packs up his things and leaves him in a taxi, for which, as is typical, he pays with his own money. Then he always returns, because after the scandal, leaving after the scandal by taxi is somehow still more pleasant than by metro, and with her earnings, you can afford, in addition to public transport, at least a scooter. Every love that has big bucks has a flip side.about once a month decides to divorce a wealthy husband, packs up his things and leaves him in a taxi, for which, as is typical, he pays with his own money. Then he always returns, because after the scandal, leaving after the scandal by taxi is somehow still more pleasant than by metro, and with her earnings, you can afford, in addition to public transport, at least a scooter. Every love that has big bucks has a flip side.about once a month decides to divorce a wealthy husband, packs up his things and leaves him in a taxi, for which, as is typical, he pays with his own money. Then he always returns, because after the scandal, leaving after the scandal by taxi is somehow still more pleasant than by metro, and with her earnings, you can afford, in addition to public transport, at least a scooter. Every love that has big bucks has a flip side.
So, no matter how much your faithful brings home every month, you always need to remember - quite possibly, even these forty thousand are not forever. Fortunately, the majority of modern and emancipated women understand this perfectly: love is love, and a million in your personal account has not prevented anyone, even if you never spend your savings, but they will definitely provide you peace of mind. Besides, returning to the question, how much should he still earn: he should earn so much that you never want to spend your reserves. Perhaps such a point of view may seem cynical to someone, however, as sad as it may sound, the truth remains unchanged: you can only rely on yourself. But seriously, a man should earn exactly that much,so that his woman does not put off two years to buy a new blouse, or a handbag, or shoes, not to mention everything else.
From childhood, of course, we know about paradise in a hut and about happiness, which is not in money. Life, however, does not agree with our well-educated parents in the Soviet country, because in the hut, to be honest, it is not heaven, and even the sweetest and most touching romantic, howling under your windows with a guitar under his arm, after six months of life in a hut will seem to you a monster, or a loser, which, in general, annoys exactly the same. As for "happiness is not in money", then there is also some difficulty, it is not in money, of course, it is not in money, but I still want to eat, and I also want to go to sea at least once every three years, and you can't get away from it. Of course, there is an option to earn your own vacation and dresses on your own, although then a reasonable question arises: is there any point in taking a man with you on vacation, and in general, in fact,why do we need such a prince who is not able to buy a piece of sausage.
Men are right, women are mercantile creatures. But in fact, we just want to exist in comfort. Without locks, yachts and prohibitively expensive cars, but with comfort: with food, shopping and the sea, this, frankly, does not need much money. However, there is still such a pleasure in the modern world as a separate budget. This honor fell to my lot, though we lived with my man and his separate money in my apartment, I regularly paid for the communal flat, the Internet, bought food, paid for the dishes he broke, because “how is it, we are a family, and you you ask me for some tenth broken plate ?! ", but he had his own money, which did not concern me in any way, they accumulated" for a common dream "and disappeared immediately after parting with, in fact, a dream.
It so happened that a man, since he imagines himself to be a man, should (it would be desirable, it would be desirable, it would be nice) to be able to provide for his woman, if he cannot afford such a luxury - there is no need to demand that his beloved live together after all, you can go to the cinema and cafes for a couple of years.
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