Outwardly, everything is always fine with her, and she came down from heaven to earth not at all from a great desire, but only in order to once again remind her happy chosen one - he is not up to all this beauty and unsurpassed mind, but she, so be it, will stay with him in order to fly away again to another planet, where everything, of course, is better than here. She never allows herself to be paid for - for God's sake, she makes good money herself. And then … rely on a man? Pf … You can only rely on yourself, and a representative of the stronger sex starts up solely for the sake of satisfying some physiological needs, in short, a bonus to her, stunning, unique and independent. Moreover, most likely she can not only hammer a nail into the wall, but also hang a shelf and even assemble a cabinet if necessary, because, as we remember:“Relying on men? Pf … ". Well, in that case, Lady Perfection may well do without a life partner.
An excellent pupil
Panties by color, dishes also by color, each thing has its "place" (known, by the way, only to her), she never smokes and, God forbid, never drinks, scrubs the floors to shine and seems to have time to attend self-development courses … Scary. As a rule, male perfectionists do not meet so often, and if they do, their pedantry is very different from that of women. Within a month (in case of strong enthusiasm, the case may drag on for a year), he will get tired of looking for his things “on the spot”, he will want to eat in the living room in front of the TV and, in the end, go to the toilet without a brush. An excellent student, who has not imagined a different life since childhood, will suffer and cry, a man will be angry, and in the end everything will end tragically. Take care of the male psyche, allow him to scatter things and wear different socks at least once a month.
At first, she seems just emotional. The only thing that scares her is that everything suits her: "Yes, I am, take me as I am." He will accept something, but his nervous system, which is bursting at the seams from the notorious emotionality, most likely not. Demanding crybabies, to be honest, are good exclusively for TV shows, and even then, mind you, in our stereotypical TV movies, the seizure character, as a rule, goes to negative heroines. For a man, there is nothing worse than a woman's tears. Even if he humbly rushes to comfort you, even if he cries with you … (by the way, if he cries with you, it's a bad thing). Besides, tears are a bad means of manipulation, which works once or twice, and then … just annoying. Agree, an eternally irritated man with a twitching eye is not the most pleasant companion.
Turgenev young lady
“Ah, don't touch me! Ah, I read Tsvetaeva all night and cried! " Also scary. Such a woman was clearly born in the library, has watched all the avant-garde cinema, knows perfectly all the productions of Meyerhold and Vakhtangov, and of course, if you go, say, for a weekend to Paris, she will immediately rush to the Louvre, and not drink wine and kiss on bridge overlooking the Eiffel Tower. In addition, most likely it will not be possible to touch her - from a kiss on the cheek she, a beauty, turns pale, blushes and, thanks, if she does not cry: "Oh, my God, what have we done."
A woman who goes to the theater and reads books is an invaluable treasure, but besides that, it would still be nice to be able to cook, to love quite earthly things.
Everyone wants warmth and home comfort, this is normal. But believe me, the role of "mother" in a man's life is played, no matter how paradoxical it may sound, still a mother. And, as a rule, she does not need a deputy. Yes, besides, he, beloved, can eat himself, dress himself and make a decision himself! A man, first of all, should feel like a warrior, a breadwinner, the head of the family, and not a mama's son, who all his life does nothing but wander from one caring woman to another. The more manic care, the sooner your faithful realizes that he is surrounded, you must somehow break out of the environment and as soon as possible. It is unlikely that you want to run after your leaving man down the street, in an attempt to finally shove a meat pie into his mouth, because "you came home from work hungry."
Of course, every woman should realize herself. If all her interests rest on the "home", the man will quickly become bored with her. But the other extreme - an iron lady, always climbing the career ladder to sky-high heights - is also not an option. It is interesting to discuss the state of the Russian economy, oil prices and exchange rates with such a woman, but after a while the man realizes that business or career is the only thing that really fascinates her. She does not go to the movies for silly comedies, she does not even have enough time to just cook dinner for her lover.
Such women can be immediately recognized by the stories about family values, about the fact that the parents met at the institute and are still together, about how important it is to build your “family nest”. She knows from the cradle that every girl should get married, so on the second date she introduces a man to her parents. Any man who dares to invite her to a rendezvous awaits an unenviable fate - in her mind she has already played a wedding, has given birth to three children and has grown old with her husband, surrounded by a dozen grandchildren. The trouble is that a man, as a rule, has other plans for the woman and for life in general.
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